Love, Babies, & Loss

"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I dedicated you..." -Jeremiah 1:5 I've kept mostly quiet about the TTTS (Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome) pregnancy my brother & sister-in-law are navigating. After 2 emergency fetoscopic surgeries 4.5 hours away, dozens of local Maternal Fetal Medicine appointments, & hospital … Continue reading Love, Babies, & Loss

Forgive and Forget? My brain wasn’t designed for that.

The holidays are upon us opening doors to joy and blessings and suffering and wounds. Real forgiveness doesn't equate to the secular quip, "Forgive and forget" which by the way is cognitively impossible unless brain trauma exists. Real forgiveness is an act of the will, an act of love not a feeling or emotion. “Forgiveness is … Continue reading Forgive and Forget? My brain wasn’t designed for that.