How To: Pray the Chaplet of the 7 Sorrows of Mary

During my Mom & I’s recent completion of “33 Days to Morning Glory” and Our Marian Consecration, we prayed the Rosary of the 7 Sorrows for the first time. We were touched by the beauty of this powerful Marian devotion which has existed since Middle Ages, promoted by the Servite Order, and made better known by Our Lady of Kibeho during her apparitions in Rwanda. This devotion has been approved by the Catholic Church.

Father Leszek Czelusniak, MIC, interviewed Nathalie, one of the visionaries of Kibeho and asked her to summarize the messages of Mary. Here was Nathalie’s response:

“The Holy Virgin insisted on the need for prayer. She said that the world is bad. It is necessary to pray, to pray, to pray a lot for this world that is bad, to pray for sinners, to pray for their conversion. She insisted a lot on the need for conversion: Convert to God! Convert to God! Convert to God! While saying that people don’t respect God’s commands, that people have a hard heart, she also asked us to meditate on the mysteries of the Rosary and to recite it every day. She also taught us the Rosary of the Seven Sorrows. She asked us to pray it every Tuesday and Friday. She asked us to obey the Church, to love God in truth, and to love our neighbor in humility and simplicity. She spoke of the need for mortification, a spirit of penitence and sacrifice. She also spoke of the need for suffering, to bear our sufferings every day. She said that no one enters heaven without suffering. She also told us that acts of charity for the poor make us beautiful flowers that God likes. She wanted a chapel to be constructed here in Kibeho, so everyone would remember her visit and pray for the Church and religious. Holy Mary spoke to us in Kinyarwanda [the language of Rwanda] with her very soft voice.”

The variation of the Chaplet of the 7 Sorrows of Mary below is from the Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception & is included in “33 Days to Morning Glory” by Fr. Michael Gaitley, MIC. https://www.marian.org/mary/prayers/sorrows.php

For another variation on the Chaplet of the Seven Sorrows of Mary by Our Lady of Kibeho: overview & pictorial representation of the 7 Sorrows Rosary by Our Lady of Kibeho: https://www.immaculee.com/pages/7-sorrows-rosary-prayer

THE CHAPLET OF THE SEVEN SORROWS OF MARY– 7 Decade Chaplet

Though I use a regular 5 decade rosary that I modify, here are links to the Seven Sorrows Chaplet for purchase from EWTN Religious Catalogue & Leaflet Missal.

THE Chaplet OF THE SEVEN SORROWS OF MARY

Sign of the Cross: In the name of The Father, and The Son, and The Holy Spirit. Amen.

Act of Contrition (Optional): O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended You, and I detest all my sins because I dread the loss of Heaven and the pains of hell; but most of all because they offend You, my God, You Who are all good and deserving of all my love.  I firmly resolve, with the help of Your grace, to confess my sins, to do penance, and to amend my life. Amen.

1) THE FIRST SORROW- THE PROPHECY (LUKE 2:25-35)

The Prophecy of holy Simeon, who told Our Sorrowful Mother of the bitter passion and death of Jesus:

“Now there was a man in Jerusalem whose name was Simeon. This man was righteous and devout, awaiting the consolation of Israel, and the holy Spirit was upon him. It had been revealed to him by the holy Spirit that he should not see death before he had seen the Messiah of the Lord. He came in the Spirit into the temple; and when the parents brought in the child Jesus to perform the custom of the law in regard to him, he took him into his arms and blessed God, saying: “Now, Master, you may let your servant go in peace, according to your word, for my eyes have seen your salvation, which you prepared in sight of all the peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles, and glory for your people Israel.” The child’s father and mother were amazed at what was said about him; and Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, “Behold, this child is destined for the fall and rise of many in Israel, and to be a sign that will be contradicted (and you yourself a sword will pierce) so that the thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.”

(Pray 1 Our Father and 7 Hail Mary’s)

2. THE SECOND SORROW- THE FLIGHT (MATTHEW 2:13-15)

Our Sorrowful Mother is forces to Flee into Egypt to save her beloved Son from the death decreed by Herod:

“Now when they had departed, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother, flee to Egypt,* and stay there until I tell you. Herod is going to search for the child to destroy him.” Joseph rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed for Egypt. He stayed there until the death of Herod, that what the Lord had said through the prophet might be fulfilled, “Out of Egypt I called my son.”

(Pray 1 Our Father and 7 Hail Mary’s)

3. THE THIRD SORROW- THE LOSS (LUKE 2:43-51)

Our Sorrowful Mother is separated from Jesus for three days when he remains in Jerusalem for three days without her knowing it:

“And when the feast was ended, as they were returning, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem. His parents did not know it, but supposing him to be in the company they went a day’s journey, and they sought him among their kinsfolk and acquaintances; and when they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem, seeking him. After three days they found him in the temple, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions; and all who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers. And when they saw him they were astonished; and his mother said to him, “Son, why have you treated us so? Behold, your father and I have been looking for you anxiously.” 49 And he said to them, “How is it that you sought me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?” And they did not understand the saying which he spoke to them.  And he went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them; and his mother kept all these things in her heart.”

(Pray 1 Our Father and 7 Hail Mary’s)

4. THE FOURTH SORROW- The Meeting (LUKE 23:27-30)

Our Sorrowful Mother meets Jesus on the road to Calvary and sees him fall under the cruel weight of the cross:

“And there followed him a great multitude of the people, and of women who bewailed and lamented him. But Jesus turning to them said, “Daughters of Jerusalem, do not weep for me, but weep for yourselves and for your children.  For behold, the days are coming when they will say, ‘Blessed are the barren, and the wombs that never bore, and the breasts that never gave suck!’  Then they will begin to say to the mountains, ‘Fall on us’; and to the hills, ‘Cover us.’  For if they do this when the wood is green, what will happen when it is dry?”

(Pray 1 Our Father and 7 Hail Mary’s)

5. THE FIFTH SORROW- Jesus Dies (JOHN 19:25-30)

Our Sorrowful Mother watches Jesus die on the Cross:

“So the soldiers did this. But standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Mag′dalene. When Jesus saw his mother, and the disciple whom he loved standing near, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!”  Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home. After this Jesus, knowing that all was now finished, said (to fulfil the scripture), “I thirst.” A bowl full of vinegar stood there; so they put a sponge full of the vinegar on hyssop and held it to his mouth.  When Jesus had received the vinegar, he said, “It is finished”; and he bowed his head and gave up his spirit.”

(Pray 1 Our Father and 7 Hail Mary’s)

6. THE SIXTH Sorrow- Mary receives jesus (JOHN 19:31-37)

Our Sorrowful Mother receives the dead body of Jesus in her arms:

“Since it was the day of Preparation, in order to prevent the bodies from remaining on the cross on the sabbath (for that sabbath was a high day), the Jews asked Pilate that their legs might be broken, and that they might be taken away. So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the first, and of the other who had been crucified with him;  but when they came to Jesus and saw that he was already dead, they did not break his legs. But one of the soldiers pierced his side with a spear, and at once there came out blood and water.  He who saw it has borne witness—his testimony is true, and he knows that he tells the truth—that you also may believe.  For these things took place that the scripture might be fulfilled, “Not a bone of him shall be broken.” And again another scripture says, “They shall look on him whom they have pierced.”

(Pray 1 Our Father and 7 Hail Mary’s)

7. The Seventh Sorrow- The Burial (mark 15:40-47)

Our Sorrowful Mother sees Jesus placed in the sacred tomb:

“And when evening had come, since it was the day of Preparation, that is, the day before the sabbath,  Joseph of Arimathe′a, a respected member of the council, who was also himself looking for the kingdom of God, took courage and went to Pilate, and asked for the body of Jesus.  And Pilate wondered if he were already dead; and summoning the centurion, he asked him whether he was already dead. And when he learned from the centurion that he was dead, he granted the body to Joseph.  And he bought a linen shroud, and taking him down, wrapped him in the linen shroud, and laid him in a tomb which had been hewn out of the rock; and he rolled a stone against the door of the tomb. Mary Mag′dalene and Mary the mother of Joses saw where he was laid.”

(Pray 1 Our Father and 7 Hail Mary’s)

Concluding Prayer (x3)

Hail Mary Full of Grace, The Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now, and at the hour of our death.

[Three Hail Mary’s are said in honor of the Tears if Our Sorrowful Mother]

Sign of the Cross: In the name of The Father, and The Son, and The Holy Spirit. Amen.

How To: Pray the Rosary

rosaryOctober is a Marian Month and the Month of the Rosary. I’m slowly reading and digesting Fr. Calloway’s Champions of the Rosary which I highly recommend as a historical and spiritual overview of the important and heavenly inspired devotion known the rosary. October is the Month of the Rosary. October 7th marks the celebration of the Marian Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary. The rosary is shrouded in mystery and misconceptions for many people in our modern era (and historically too!) This meditative devotion is pure love and truth of the Gospel and the Life of Christ through the loving arms, insightful eyes, childlike trust, and merciful compassion of Our Lady, the Mother of Our Lord.

The biblical basis for the “Hail Mary” stems from the Gospels- The Annunciation and Visitation. The building blocks of the rosary have existed for centuries beginning as a simple meditation that developed into the Marian Psalter and eventually the rosary as we know today.  This is a devotion that connects centuries of saints and sinners. Simple yet profound- a spiritual weapon for our times. Please, join me during the Month of October praying the Rosary as Chronically Catholic Blog’s Monthly Devotion.

“The rosary is the book of the blind, where souls see and there enact the greatest drama of love the world has ever known; it is the book of the simple, which initiates them into mysteries and knowledge more satisfying than the education of other men; it is the book of the aged, whose eyes close upon the shadow of this world, and open on the substance of the next. The power of the rosary is beyond description.” – Archbishop Fulton Sheen

How To Pray the Rosary:

***There are a variety of approved variations of the Rosary that allow the faithful to meditate on the Life of Christ and Life of Mary in various manners. For example, there is the Carthusian Rosary, The Franciscan Crown Rosary, etc. I have chosen the most common version of the rosary to explain.***

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INTRODUCTORY PRAYERS:

  1. While holding the crucifix, make the Sign of the Cross & pray the Apostles’ Creed.
  2. On the first large bead, pray the Our Father (can be prayed for the intentions of the Holy Father.)
  3. On the subsequent three small beads, pray the Hail Mary (can be prayed for an increase in Faith, Hope, & Charity.)
  4. On the final bead, pray the Glory Be.
  5. [Some people pray the Fatima Prayer after the Glory Bead here.]

THE DECADES:

  1. Announce the 1st Mystery for the Corresponding Day [either Joyful, Sorrowful, Glorious, or Luminous.] [after announcing the mystery, you can add a reflection or biblical passage, intention, etc.]
  2. On the next large bead, pray the Our Father.
  3. On each small bead, pray the Hail Mary [there are 10 total per mystery.]
  4. In the space between the final Hail Mary and the Our Father bead, pray the Glory Be and the Fatima Prayer [a prayer Mary revealed to three shepherd children in Fatima, Portugal, in 1917.]
  5. Repeat steps 1-4, for the next four mysteries of the rosary [2nd, 3rd, 4th, & 5th mystery.]

CLOSING PRAYERS:

  1. After the final Glory Be, pray the Hail Holy Queen on the center section, medal, or bead that joins the 3 strands of the Rosary together. You can conclude with the Rosary Prayer.
  2. While holding the cross or crucifix, conclude with the Sign of the Cross.

OPTIONAL:

  1. There are variations to the ending of the rosary after the Hail Holy Queen is prayed, Many people conclude with the Rosary Prayer. Others pray other important devotional payers such as the Memorare or St. Michael the Archangel Prayer etc.
  2. As a Catholic, we are asked to pray for the Holy Father and his Intentions. There are special graces attributed too. My family concludes the Rosary with praying for the Holy Father and his intentions followed by the Our Father, Hail Mary, & Glory Be. This is a traditional approach to praying for the Holy Father and his intentions.
  3. You can also conclude the rosary with intercessions. For example: Our Lady of the Rosary, pray for us. Sacred Heart of Jesus, pray for us. Holy Family, pray for us. etc.
  4. I do recommend starting [or ending if you forget] specific intentions that you offer your rosary up for [and you should pray for yourself too!]

THE PRAYERS OF THE ROSARY:

Sign of the Cross

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Apostles’ Creed

I believe in God, the Father almighty, Creator of heaven and earth, and in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died and was buried; he descended into hell; on the third day he rose again from the dead; he ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of God the Father almighty; from there he will come to judge the living and the dead. * I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and life everlasting. Amen.

Our Father

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. * Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses; as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women; and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. * Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory Be

Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, * as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

Fatima Prayer

O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of hell; lead all souls to heaven, especially those in most need of thy mercy.

Hail, Holy Queen

Hail, holy Queen, mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness, and our hope. To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve; to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us; and, after this, our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.

Pray for us O holy mother of God, * that we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.

Rosary Prayer

Let us pray. * O God, whose only-begotten Son by his life, death and Resurrection, has purchased for us the rewards of eternal life; grant, we beseech thee, that by meditating upon these mysteries of the most holy rosary of the Blessed Virgin Mary, we may imitate what they contain and obtain what they promise, through the same Christ our Lord. Amen.

THE MYSTERIES OF THE ROSARY:
Joyful Mysteries (prayed on Mondays and Saturdays):
  • 1st Decade: The Annunciation
  • 2nd Decade: The Visitation
  • 3rd Decade: The Birth of Jesus
  • 4th Decade: The Presentation
  • 5th Decade: The Finding of the Child Jesus in the Temple
Luminous Mysteries (prayed on Thursdays):
  • 1st Decade: The Baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan
  • 2nd Decade: The Wedding Feast at Cana
  • 3rd Decade: The Proclamation of the Kingdom of God
  • 4th Decade: The Transfiguration of Jesus
  • 5th Decade: The Institution of the Eucharist
Sorrowful Mysteries (prayed on Tuesdays and Fridays):
  • 1st Decade: The Agony in the Garden
  • 2nd Decade: The Scourging at the Pillar
  • 3rd Decade: The Crowning with Thorns
  • 4th Decade: The Carrying of the Cross
  • 5th Decade: The Crucifixion
Glorious Mysteries (prayed on Wednesdays and Sundays):
  • 1st Decade: The Resurrection
  • 2nd Decade: The Ascension
  • 3rd Decade: The Descent of the Holy Spirit
  • 4th Decade: The Assumption
  • 5th Decade: The Crowning of Mary Queen of Heaven

 

Our Lady of the Rosary, pray for us!

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